Reach Out
Earlier this week I came across a blog that really spoke to me. This woman, Dana, has several rare diseases, and she blogs about her numerous surgeries and piling medical bills with a snarky positivity that I recognized instantly as the coping mechanism of a person who has not only been to hell and back, they went a few times, and can now draw you a detailed map. Her blog is actually a fundraiser in disguise, with options to donate money, recipes, or even the advertisement of her mission by blogging about her blog (guilty!), all with a final total goal to help her pay off her medical debt.
Interestingly enough, I recently began conversing with some other tranplant patients that share my kidney doctors at St. Mary's in Grand Rapids, and it was strangely soothing to trade experiences with them, although I was a little suprised to find myself eager to recap my difficult transplant recovery to people I had not ever met in person. What I was reminded of the most was how it can be so easy to wrap yourself up inside of your struggles, and shut everyone else out, somehow tricking yourself into believing that you can and should do it on your own.
Whatever it takes, reach out. Be it a snarky blog or an email list, or a phone call or a hug- just connect.